LBF Dominant Definition: Taking charge of yo shit; being able to perform without excessive guidance, teaching, or hand holding in love, finance, and life. In general,…… Read more “Damsel & the Dominant”
Author: letsbuildfutures
Writing about the things I wish I knew as a young adult, the things I'm attempting to figure out and the things that can make the difference in the lives of others.
The Complaint Drug
“My job better hope I never win the lottery, or I’m OUT!” and in truth they better hope I never win the lottery…(I don’t even play) But…… Read more “The Complaint Drug”
Othello & the Pink
There’s a chip in the wall opposite my bed. Many small beauty marks such as this decorate the walls of my bedroom. This particular chip has a…… Read more “Othello & the Pink”
NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE
The first maybe I allowed in my life was at 15. I let an ex use a maybe like a semi-colon. Pausing our relationship but not our…… Read more “NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE”
Death to the “Good Girl”
I was “good,” I was really good. I didn’t raise my voice too loud or ask too many questions. I didn’t probe or pry even when my…… Read more “Death to the “Good Girl””
Sex is NOT a Therapist
Great sex after a hard day is indescribably wonderful. There are so many mental, emotional, and physical benefits to shaking the sheets like lowered stress levels,…… Read more “Sex is NOT a Therapist”
Picture Imperfect
Sometimes it’s just really good to feel yourself *cues Beyonce.* I never thought I was photogenic. Largely, the idea of me being beautiful was a one-sided…… Read more “Picture Imperfect”
