Lack of closure feels like you’re standing at a door waiting for the other person to open it. This leds us to think that real closure is…… Read more “Closed Doors Don’t Get Fed: a talk of closure and the one that got away pt. 1”
Damsel & the Dominant
LBF Dominant Definition: Taking charge of yo shit; being able to perform without excessive guidance, teaching, or hand holding in love, finance, and life. In general,…… Read more “Damsel & the Dominant”
The Complaint Drug
“My job better hope I never win the lottery, or I’m OUT!” and in truth they better hope I never win the lottery…(I don’t even play) But…… Read more “The Complaint Drug”
Othello & the Pink
There’s a chip in the wall opposite my bed. Many small beauty marks such as this decorate the walls of my bedroom. This particular chip has a…… Read more “Othello & the Pink”
NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE
The first maybe I allowed in my life was at 15. I let an ex use a maybe like a semi-colon. Pausing our relationship but not our…… Read more “NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE”
Death to the “Good Girl”
I was “good,” I was really good. I didn’t raise my voice too loud or ask too many questions. I didn’t probe or pry even when my…… Read more “Death to the “Good Girl””
Sex is NOT a Therapist
Great sex after a hard day is indescribably wonderful. There are so many mental, emotional, and physical benefits to shaking the sheets like lowered stress levels,…… Read more “Sex is NOT a Therapist”
Picture Imperfect
Sometimes it’s just really good to feel yourself *cues Beyonce.* I never thought I was photogenic. Largely, the idea of me being beautiful was a one-sided…… Read more “Picture Imperfect”
Kill the Messenger and the Message
Somebody, please go gather Unc Snoop and his bonnet to get him together because this ain’t it. Excuse my ebonics while I dive into this post. …… Read more “Kill the Messenger and the Message”
The Secret Meaning of Words
“Actions speak louder than words..” And often, they do but nothing in this world articulates, defines, explains, and clarifies quite like words. Words, whether spoken or…… Read more “The Secret Meaning of Words”
