Lack of closure feels like you’re standing at a door waiting for the other person to open it. This leds us to think that real closure is…… Read more “Closed Doors Don’t Get Fed: a talk of closure and the one that got away pt. 1”
Tag: relationships
NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE
The first maybe I allowed in my life was at 15. I let an ex use a maybe like a semi-colon. Pausing our relationship but not our…… Read more “NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE”
Kill the Messenger and the Message
Somebody, please go gather Unc Snoop and his bonnet to get him together because this ain’t it. Excuse my ebonics while I dive into this post. …… Read more “Kill the Messenger and the Message”
Ode to Self Care
100 percent. Everyone wants 100 percent of you. Your job demands 100 percent, your bae, your kids, your friend that keeps calling and crying about the same…… Read more “Ode to Self Care”
What to do with EXciting Run-ins for the Holidays
It happens, there you are with a mouth full of saucy meatballs at a mutual friend’s holiday party and your ex (or expired situationship) walks in. You…… Read more “What to do with EXciting Run-ins for the Holidays”
Hello Grief, You Old Friend
Someone recently said that you shouldn’t grieve until the person is actually gone. Part of me agrees. Yet, part of me is familiar with that technique among…… Read more “Hello Grief, You Old Friend”
Fifty Shades of Crazy
I hate conflict. It makes me itch and sweat in the most private places; that’s why I attempt to avoid it at all costs. Actually, only…… Read more “Fifty Shades of Crazy”
