The dislike many of you feel for Lawrence stems for the real duality of his character. This idea that many men ruin women who want to believe…… Read more “Why We NEED Lawrence on HBO’s Insecure”
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I Took a Vow of Silence for a day & it wasn’t as Easy as I Thought…
The thought came in the shower; the birthplace of all great ideas. One of my bucket list dreams is to take a vow of…… Read more “I Took a Vow of Silence for a day & it wasn’t as Easy as I Thought…”
My Complicated Love Affair with Clothes
Some people dress to impress. I dress to reflect my energy; sometimes quite literally wearing my heart on my sleeve. Using clothes as an expression of myself…… Read more “My Complicated Love Affair with Clothes”
You don’t like me & I’m OK with that
I started thinking about how jarring it is to discover that you’re disliked by someone. These days people don’t come out and say ”I don’t like you.”…… Read more “You don’t like me & I’m OK with that”
The ONE That Got Away Pt. 2
For a while I found myself locked in a daydreamy memory of how the kisses felt when I was 16. How intoxicating lovemaking was when I was…… Read more “The ONE That Got Away Pt. 2”
Closed Doors Don’t Get Fed: a talk of closure and the one that got away pt. 1
Lack of closure feels like you’re standing at a door waiting for the other person to open it. This leds us to think that real closure is…… Read more “Closed Doors Don’t Get Fed: a talk of closure and the one that got away pt. 1”
NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE
The first maybe I allowed in my life was at 15. I let an ex use a maybe like a semi-colon. Pausing our relationship but not our…… Read more “NOBODY’S F*CKIN MAYBE”
Kill the Messenger and the Message
Somebody, please go gather Unc Snoop and his bonnet to get him together because this ain’t it. Excuse my ebonics while I dive into this post. …… Read more “Kill the Messenger and the Message”
Ode to Self Care
100 percent. Everyone wants 100 percent of you. Your job demands 100 percent, your bae, your kids, your friend that keeps calling and crying about the same…… Read more “Ode to Self Care”
What to do with EXciting Run-ins for the Holidays
It happens, there you are with a mouth full of saucy meatballs at a mutual friend’s holiday party and your ex (or expired situationship) walks in. You…… Read more “What to do with EXciting Run-ins for the Holidays”
